Subscriber Extra: Are we ageist when we suggest older gays can't change?
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In this bonus audio content for subscribers, I’m talking about one of the ideas in ‘It’s time to ask more of older gays hung up on the word “queer.”
I wanted to zero in on the idea that deferring to bigotry from older gays, even when it’s rooted in personal experience, participates in some ageist beliefs. I talk about the flexibility that’s possible for folks, even when they’re moving past 50 and beyond.


